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Some people always see their failures in life, forgetting everything they have achieved. They think they owe their success to others, and blame themselves for their failures.
Lack of self-confidence also affects a person's relationships with the opposite sex. We witness with astonishment that some stunningly beautiful women find themselves 'too ugly to look at'. People who lack self-confidence usually stay away from the opposite sex out of fear of rejection. Even if they have a lover or are married, they cannot easily shake off the fear of not being appreciated and being abandoned, and they may fall into unnecessary jealousy.
Everyone needs to like themselves more or less. As bad as arrogance and WhatsApp Number List self-conceit are, not liking oneself at all is just as bad. A person who doesn’t like himself at all experiences feelings of worthlessness and thinks that he is someone no one likes or cares about. Perhaps the most important reason for depression is lack of confidence, not loving oneself and not liking oneself. Lack of confidence leads to depression, and depression leads to lack of confidence.
Shyness is traditionally considered a virtue by society. Most of us really like shy people. However, unfortunately, a shy person is a strong candidate for depression. Because shy, reserved, introverted people are people who lack confidence in themselves. As we explained above under the heading of 'lack of confidence', they can easily become depressed.
Narcissism
Just as lack of self-confidence causes a tendency towards depression, excessive self-esteem (i.e. narcissism) also causes a tendency towards depression. Because people who love themselves very much and consider themselves superior to others always expect special treatment from those around them. Of course, it is not possible to receive special treatment from everyone all the time. This is why narcissistic people are very easily disappointed.
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发表于 2024-12-23 13:32:16